COMPLAINING, THE ART OF FAILURE​

-THIS IS ONE OF THE STEP BY STEP TO HAPPINESS, ENJOY THE PROCESS-

'Discontent, blaming, complaining, self-pity cannot serve as a foundation for a good future, no matter how much effort you make.' Eckhart Tolle

My board has got goals. They are not many but they are quite significant. I look at it every day. I have updated them previously, not the end, the goals are always the same but the road to get there can always change. I know I am going to get there; I believe it so much.

The other day I woke up to go to work and I felt so much energy, good vibes. I told my girlfriend (who was sleeping beautifully)

‘there are 86400 seconds available for you today to make it the best day of your life’.

I don’t know if she got it right but she smiled at me. I knew I was going to go to work and spend 13 hours going up and down my ward, that did not mean though I had to make my day miserable because of that!

SOME DAYS CAN BE MISERABLE, BUT IT IS JUST BECAUSE YOU DECIDE SO.

Days at work can be busy but it does not mean you need to make them worse. Enjoy the stress related to it. Enjoy every single part of it, you decide what to do with it.

I am not currently happy in the position I am now, I am not complaining about that like many people I know would do, I am simply trying to make my days better while I am working for the solutions. It is not a difficult concept to understand.

When you start complaining about all your mental energies goes in the bin. You don’t only do bad for your future because you are not solving anything, but you affect others with your mouth and your stupid talking.

Complaining is stupid and cowardly.

Instead of taking action towards solutions (you complain because there is something to solve I hope) you just concentrate going round and round the same concept which is NEVER going to help you. Why is that?

BECAUSE COMPLAINING IS EASY, easier than doing an effort towards a solution. IF YOU WANT A BETTER LIFE DELETE COMPLAINING, RESET IT, PUT EARPLUGS WHEN PEOPLE COMPLAIN, YOU DO NOT WANT TO LISTEN TO IT. I could not save a single thing of complaining. If you find one I pay you dinner, trust me.

When we begin a day we have like a reservoir of mental energy we can use it. Usually, the morning is the one that has got the most, after lunch (supposing you woke up early), is already starting to leave you and the brain functions differently.

If you begin the day complaining, good luck with the rest of the day!

I am not a fan of complainers and you should not be too, not even the funny complainers, same story. The only thing they are good at is to look around to find excuses for their life, because is not the way they want. They rather complain until they die than actually moving a finger toward improving their life. Although there is something I need to clarify at this point.

There is a difference between people complaining and people talking about a problem. I believe you can all relate to the two categories. Complainers almost enjoy doing that all day, who tell you their problem and then try to work for a solution is totally different.

The main difference is that the complainer feels he/she the only one in the world suffering from that. We all have problems, some more than others of course, but it’s enough to look at people they suffer the hell but they managed to turn all the bad in good.

I can bet my ass, they did not go around complaining of what happened to them, they were on the floor, they slowly raise up and they managed to change their present WORKING HARD for it. There is the belief that we can get anything we want without effort, IT DOES NOT EXIST, FORGET IT.

Anything you want, work for it.

At the end of the day if you really worked hard for it and you did not achieve it (yet)can you blame yourself? No. That is partly the secret to a happy life, being fine with yourself.

Your life can be only be judged by the one that actually works for it, YOU.

Maybe it’s time to stop complaining and working more for your future with a more responsible point of view, doing everything in your power to change what you do not like about your future. Maybe is time to look inside yourself and being honest. The amazing part of it is that you can begin now to change what it does not make sense in your life, begin with stop complaining and finally be happy.

-THIS IS ONE OF THE STEP BY STEP TO HAPPINESS, ENJOY THE PROCESS.-